Readiness · 8 min read

What the 90 Days to Covenant Programme Actually Includes

A week-by-week look at screening, verification, cultural formation, private weekly reporting, and the Day 90 covenant decision.

Before day one

Nothing begins with an introduction. Applications are read by a person, integrity declarations are reviewed, and identity, selfie, and live video verification are completed. Anti-scam, financial-solicitation, and immigration-arrangement screening is applied to every application without exception.

The thirteen weeks

One active connection at a time. Each week carries a formation module and a private individual report that only the Covenant Journey Director reads.

  • Weeks 1–3: intent, faith practice, life history, and honest expectations
  • Weeks 4–6: family systems, cultural tracks, and in-law realities
  • Weeks 7–9: money, conflict, parenting, and household order
  • Weeks 10–12: relocation, distance, church membership, and covenant readiness
  • Week 13: the Day 90 decision, recorded separately by each member

Oversight and closure

Weekly reports are risk-classified so that concerns are seen early rather than after damage is done. Connections can be paused. Milestone reviews land at day thirty, sixty, and ninety, and every connection that ends receives a guided closure debrief rather than silence.

The house provides structure, screening, formation, and oversight. It does not provide guarantees: a match, compatibility, relocation, and marriage are never promised, and the programme is guidance and formation rather than therapy.

Questions

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What happens on Day 90?+

Each member records a covenant decision separately. The decisions are sealed until both are submitted, then the outcome is shared with both members along with next steps, whether that is premarital formation or a guided closure.

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