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Family authority
Who is consulted, who must be greeted first, and how decisions travel through a Haitian family compared with a Nigerian one.
Two Houses, One Covenant
Culture is not a detail to sort out later. It is the daily texture of a marriage — so the programme teaches both houses with equal honour before a connection deepens.
What Gets Taught
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Long Distance
Distance is not the problem. Vagueness is. Weekly structure replaces guesswork.
Questions
Yes, when both people learn each other's culture on purpose rather than assuming it. Language, food, family authority, church tradition, money habits, and wedding expectations all differ, and the ninety-day curriculum works through each of them week by week.
By discussing family roles, in-law involvement, finances, parenting, faith practice, relocation, citizenship realities, and conflict style before engagement rather than after it.
Wedding customs and dowry or bride-price expectations, how each family expresses respect, language with future children, church membership, remittance and family financial support, and where the household will actually live.
Yes, and it is normal here. Most connections begin across Canada, the United States, the United Kingdom, and Nigeria, with weekly rhythms designed around time zones.