An elegantly dressed couple in a dimly lit heritage salon
Haiti Meets Nigeria crest

A Private Christian Matchmaking House

When Haiti meets Nigeria,
purpose meets possibility.

Ninety days, one intentional connection, and real people walking with you the whole way. Two cultures, one faith, plenty of laughter — and a Director who knows your name. No swiping, no algorithms, no guessing games.

The Programme

Ninety days of intentional discovery, not ninety days to an altar.

Haiti Meets Nigeria is a private matchmaking house and relationship-readiness programme. Every applicant is screened, verified, interviewed, and assessed before a single introduction is made. Once two members mutually accept an introduction, they enter a structured 90-day journey of six phases and twelve weekly modules — lessons, guided conversations, shared activities, and a private weekly report read by the Covenant Journey Director.

6

Programme phases

12

Weekly modules

1

Active connection at a time

Fabiola and Akinwande Robert laughing together in matching Haitian denim outfits

The Founders

Meet the Couple Behind the Journey

Hi, we’re Fabiola and Akinwande Robert, the Haitian-Nigerian couple behind Haiti Meets Nigeria: 90 Days to Covenant.

Our love story brought together two countries, two strong cultures, plenty of personality, and one shared faith. Along the way, we learned that lasting love requires more than attraction. It takes prayer, friendship, communication, emotional maturity, laughter, patience, and a willingness to understand one another.

We created this experience because we know there are serious Haitian and Nigerian singles who are ready for meaningful love but tired of confusion, inconsistency, and relationships with no clear direction.

We are not here to pressure anyone into marriage. We are here to help participants date with wisdom, recognize compatibility, have the conversations that matter, and move toward covenant with greater clarity.

Expect faith, honest conversations, encouragement, cultural connection, practical guidance, and yes, a little laughter too. Because preparing for love should be purposeful, but it should still feel beautiful.

Fabiola Robert

Mental Health Practitioner, Non-Medical

Youth & Family Development Practitioner, Non-Clinical

Akinwande Robert

Pastor

Couples Development Practitioner

The Distinction

Not Another Dating App

Members do not swipe, browse unlimited profiles, or collect casual connections. Each approved applicant receives curated introductions based on detailed compatibility, screening, readiness, and human review.

Ordinary Dating Apps

  • Endless profiles and unverified strangers
  • Attention rewarded over intention
  • No screening for scams or immigration motives
  • No structure once a conversation begins
  • No one accountable when something goes wrong

This House

  • Verified, interviewed, assessed membership
  • A maximum of three curated introductions per cycle
  • Anti-scam and anti-japa screening on every application
  • A twelve-week curriculum with milestone reviews
  • A Director who reads every escalation personally

Who It Serves

For adults genuinely prepared for marriage.

  • Haitian and Nigerian Christian singles
  • Haitian and Nigerian diaspora members
  • Legally single adults, including divorced applicants free to remarry and widowed applicants
  • Adults open to learning another culture with humility
  • Adults willing to complete a structured 90-day programme
  • Adults prepared for honest weekly accountability
  • Adults with realistic expectations about distance and relocation
  • Adults who will verify their identity without hesitation
Read the full eligibility standard

Four Pillars

Everything here rests on four commitments.

Pillar I

Faith

Shared devotion, prayer life, church involvement, and a marriage built on biblical covenant rather than convenience.

Pillar II

Cultural Understanding

Haitian and Nigerian family life, language, tradition, and household expectations taught with equal honour to both houses.

Pillar III

Compatibility

Readiness assessments, values, temperament, finances, parenting, and cross-border realities reviewed by a human being.

Pillar IV

Accountability

Private weekly individual reporting, milestone reviews, and a Director who reads what matters and intervenes early.

The Process

How the ninety days begin.

Applying does not guarantee acceptance, and acceptance does not guarantee a match.

01

Application

A detailed private application, reviewed individually.

02

Verification

Identity, selfie, and live video verification before any introduction.

03

Intake Interview

A conversation with the house to confirm readiness and intent.

04

Readiness Assessments

Faith, emotional, cultural, financial, and relocation readiness.

05

Curated Introduction

A considered introduction with reasoning — never a stack of profiles.

06

The 90 Days

Six phases, twelve weekly modules, and one active connection at a time.

See all ten steps
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Cultural Compatibility

Two houses, learned properly.

Haitian and Nigerian traditions are taught as distinct cultural tracks — not blended into a vague idea of Africa and the Caribbean. Members study language, greetings, respect for elders, extended-family expectations, food, marriage customs, parenting, household roles, and the financial support of relatives, then build a shared culture of their own.

Enter the Cultural Bridge

Safety & Verification

Screened for scams, sponsorship hunting, and coercion.

Every application is screened for financial solicitation, immigration pressure, false identity, and undisclosed marriage. Concerns are classified Green, Yellow, Orange, or Red, and Orange and Red matters reach the Director and Safety Officer immediately.

Verified Identity

Email, phone, government identification, selfie, and live video verification — reviewed by a Verification Officer, never automatically approved.

Never Send

Money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, banking details, passwords, immigration or government documents, intimate images, or emergency payments. Ever.

Immediate Escalation

Any member may pause a connection, block, or report. Messaging can be suspended while a safety case is reviewed.
Visit the Safety Centre

Membership

What it costs to walk with the house.

Every fee is published before you apply. The application fee covers screening only — it never buys a match, and the programme fee is charged only when your cohort's payment window opens.

Founding Cohort Application

$39per applicant

One-time application fee covering application review, initial eligibility, identity verification, screening, readiness assessment, interview and the Founder decision. Non-refundable. It does not guarantee acceptance or a match.

Founding Cohort Match Activation

$99per person

Due only after a curated Haitian-to-Nigerian introduction is mutually accepted. Includes the complete guided 90 Days to Covenant matched experience.

See every fee and payment plan

Questions

Asked before applying.

Is marriage guaranteed?+

No. We provide structure, screening, cultural formation, and accountability. Marriage, a match, and compatibility are never guaranteed.

Can I browse all members?+

No. There is no directory and no swiping. Each approved member receives up to three curated introductions per matching cycle and holds one active connection at a time.

Can I apply from Haiti or Nigeria?+

Yes. Members in Haiti, Nigeria, and the diaspora are all welcome, subject to verification and eligibility review.

Will you assist with visas or sponsorship?+

No. We are not an immigration agency and provide no sponsorship, visa, or relocation assistance. Financial and immigration solicitation ends a membership.

How private are my answers?+

Assessment answers, weekly reports, journals, and messages to the Director are private to you and authorised staff. Your match never sees them without your consent.

Read all twenty questions

Three journeys

One Mission. Three Guided Paths.

Singles Matchmaking introduces marriage-minded Haitian and Nigerian Christian singles. Covenant Couples develops relationships that already exist. The Sponsored Covenant Couple Pilot offers a small number of eligible couples a sponsored place in exchange for honest weekly feedback. Choose the path that reflects where you are today.

For singles

Singles: 90 Days to Covenant

For Haitian and Nigerian Christian singles seeking an intentional cross-cultural relationship with marriage in view.

  • Individual application
  • Haitian-to-Nigerian matching
  • Identity verification and screening
  • Compatibility assessments
  • Guided introductions if approved and matched
  • Faith, culture, communication, and marriage preparation
  • Structured 90-day experience
  • Founder and staff oversight

Application: $39 per person

For couples

Covenant Couples

For couples who are already dating, courting, engaged, or married and want to strengthen their relationship with structure, accountability, and faith-centred support.

  • One linked couple application
  • Separate partner assessments
  • Compatibility and alignment review
  • Love languages and temperament
  • Real prompts and tough conversations
  • Private and shared journals
  • Virtual and in-person date ideas
  • Customised 12-week development plan
  • Director or pastor checkpoints
  • Dating, engagement, and marriage pathways

Application: $79 per couple

12-week programs start at $299 paid in full or three monthly instalments of $109. One fee covers both partners. Both partners must consent and participate. Same-culture and cross-cultural existing couples may apply. Approval is required before program enrolment, and the application fee is separate and non-refundable.

For a small number of couples

Sponsored Covenant Couple Pilot

A limited sponsored cohort for couples who are already together and willing to walk the same ninety days while giving honest weekly feedback that shapes the programme.

  • Not matchmaking — you arrive already a couple
  • Nigerian and Nigerian or Haitian and Haitian couples apply together
  • Both partners consent in writing before a place is confirmed
  • Structured weekly feedback in place of the programme fee
  • A named ambassador role, if you want it
  • Limited places per cohort, with a waitlist

Eligibility review · limited places

Applying does not reserve a place. Places are limited per cohort, eligible couples may be waitlisted, and sponsorship is never guaranteed.

Inside the app

Structure you can hold in your hand, not just a promise.

Members do the ninety days inside a private app: daily questions, games, quizzes, date planning, journals, faith and culture activities, personal growth profiles, short lessons, and a weekly rhythm someone actually reads.

Everyday connection

Small, warm prompts that keep two people talking on the days life gets loud.

  • · Daily Questions
  • · Conversation Cards
  • · Love Notes
  • · Shared Memories

Play and discovery

Because a relationship that never laughs gets brittle.

  • · Couple Games
  • · Quizzes
  • · Date Planner and Date Ideas
  • · Relationship Challenges

Growth, private and shared

You grow as a person and as a pair. The app keeps those two things distinct.

  • · Grow
  • · Temperament Profile
  • · Love Expression Profile
  • · Goals
  • · Journals

Faith and culture

The Christian foundation is not a badge on the homepage. It is the content.

  • · Faith Activities
  • · Culture Activities
  • · Learn

Distance, repair and rhythm

Tools for the parts of a relationship nobody posts about.

  • · Long Distance
  • · Reconnect
  • · Relationship Pulse
  • · The 90-Day Journey
Look inside the app

Ready to Begin?

Choose the journey that reflects your relationship status today. Applications are reviewed individually, and applying does not guarantee acceptance or matching.

I Am Applying as a Single

Haitian-to-Nigerian matchmaking for approved singles.

We Are Applying as a Couple

Relationship development for existing same-culture or cross-cultural couples.

Already a couple and hoping for a sponsored place? Check Sponsored Pilot eligibility.

Not sure? Compare all three journeys