Take the tour
See how the house works before you apply
This is a private, structured Christian matchmaking programme for the Haitian and Nigerian diaspora. Here is an honest look at the shape of it. The real member experience, including profiles, journals and lesson content, stays behind the door where it belongs.
The path
Nine stages, in order
Stage one
Application and screening
A detailed private application, read by a real person. We look for settled faith, honest intent, and readiness for marriage rather than attention.
Stage two
Identity verification
Government identification, a live check, and a pastoral reference. Nobody is introduced to anyone until this is clean.
Stage three
Intake interview
A scheduled conversation with the house. Same questions, same scoring guide, every applicant. We tell you where you stand plainly.
Stage four
Readiness assessments
Six short assessments covering faith, conflict, family, finances, and expectations of marriage. Your answers stay private and are never used to label you.
Stage five
Human-reviewed matching
Recommendations are scored and then reviewed by hand. You receive reasons, likely friction, and open questions, not a swipe deck.
Stage six
Curated introduction
Values first. You meet how someone thinks, prays and lives before you ever see a photograph, and both people accept privately.
Stage seven
The 90-day journey
Twelve weeks with a shape to each week: teaching, a private journal, a guided conversation, a shared activity, a compatibility check, a faith reflection, and a private weekly report.
Stage eight
Accountability and care
Weekly reports are read by the team, never by your match. Coaching, safeguarding and closure support are part of the programme, not an add-on.
Stage nine
Payment, onboarding and cohort
One invoice, clear terms, either a direct transfer or a payment plan. Once approved, you are placed in the next cohort and onboarded properly.
A look inside
Sample screens
Every name, score and answer below is invented for this page. No real member information appears anywhere on the public site.
Applicant dashboard
- Application submitted · under review
- Identity verification · 1 of 2 items approved
- Intake interview · invitation pending
- Readiness assessments · not yet open
- Cohort placement · after interview
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Interview appointment
Intake interview
Thursday, 7:30pm · 45 minutes · video
Bring nothing but honesty. We will talk about faith, family, why marriage, and why now.
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Programme week
Week 3 · Character under pressure
- Day 1 · Teaching
- Day 2 · Private journal
- Day 3 · Guided conversation
- Day 4 · Shared activity
- Day 5 · Compatibility check
- Day 6 · Faith reflection
- Day 7 · Private weekly report
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Lesson card
What patience actually costs
15 minutes · teaching · Week 3, Day 1
A short teaching, then one question you answer for yourself. Full lesson content is part of the paid programme.
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Journal card
Private journal · Week 3, Day 2
Three prompts. Your answers are hidden.
Your match never reads this. Staff read only what you consent to share.
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Compatibility recommendation
Recommendation · 82 of 100
- Shared faith practice and church community
- Same marriage timeline
- Caution: different expectations about where home will be
The scoring model itself is internal. Members always receive the reasoning in plain words.
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Curated introduction
A considered introduction
“She serves in her church, she is close to her mother and sisters, and she is honest about wanting children. You will need to talk early about where home will be.”
No name, no photograph and no location until both people accept.
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Progress tracker
Day 24 of 90
21 of 84 daily items submitted · 3 weekly reports on file
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Notification
Your Week 4 report is open
Ten minutes, honestly answered, is the whole ask. Your match never sees it.
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Member dashboard
- Connection · active · Week 4
- Today · guided conversation
- Secure messages · 2 unread
- Coaching · request a session
- Support · report a concern any time
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What stays private
The door we keep closed
Real applications, real profiles and photographs, private journals, interview notes and scores, verification documents, assessment answers, weekly report contents, safety records, staff notes, the matching model itself and the full paid lesson content are never shown publicly. That is the reason people trust this house with something this personal.
If this is the way you want to be courted, start with an application
We take a small number of members each quarter so every journey gets real attention. Applying costs you nothing but honesty.
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