Dating, Engagement and Marriage Development

Covenant Couples

Already in a relationship? Build it with intention.

Who this is for

You are already a couple. This is the work of building it well.

Four relationship stages, one honest programme. You keep your own story; we bring structure, teaching and a facilitator's eye.

Stage

Dating

Serious about each other, and ready to test the foundation properly.

Stage

Courting

Marriage is on the table. Now the hard conversations get their turn.

Stage

Engaged

A date is set. Twelve weeks to prepare the covenant, not just the wedding.

Stage

Married

Already married, and tending what you have on purpose rather than by accident.

What you actually get

A private couples app, not a PDF workbook

Everything below is live inside Covenant Couples today. You use it together across the week, and it keeps working when you are in two different time zones.

Everyday connection

Small, warm prompts that keep two people talking on the days life gets loud.

  • Daily Questions One question a day, written to open a real conversation instead of small talk. Both of you answer, then you see each other.
  • Conversation Cards Themed decks for the harder subjects: money, family, faith, intimacy expectations, relocation, past hurt.
  • Love Notes Short private notes you can leave for each other inside the app, kept in one place you can look back on.
  • Shared Memories A private timeline of the moments you want to remember, added by either of you.

Play and discovery

Because a relationship that never laughs gets brittle.

  • Couple Games Turn-based games you can play together or across time zones, built around guessing, remembering and confessing well.
  • Quizzes Short quizzes on communication, conflict style, love expression and readiness, with results written in plain language.
  • Date Planner and Date Ideas Date ideas sorted by budget, energy and distance, including a long-distance set, plus a planner so it actually happens.
  • Relationship Challenges Week-long challenges with a clear point: listen better, argue cleaner, pray together, spend on purpose.

Growth, private and shared

You grow as a person and as a pair. The app keeps those two things distinct.

  • Grow Your private growth space. Your reflections stay yours unless you choose to share them.
  • Temperament Profile A profile of how you are wired, written as behaviour and tendency, not as a label or a diagnosis.
  • Love Expression Profile How you naturally give and receive care, and where that quietly misses your partner.
  • Goals Personal and shared goals with a rhythm for reviewing them instead of forgetting them.
  • Journals Private journalling, plus the option to share a specific entry with your partner or with the Director.

Faith and culture

The Christian foundation is not a badge on the homepage. It is the content.

  • Faith Activities Scripture-anchored activities and prayer rhythms for two people, written for real weeks and not for a retreat.
  • Culture Activities Haitian and Nigerian family expectations, language, food, ceremony and money culture, handled honestly. Same-culture couples get their own culture, not a comparison.
  • Learn Short lessons you can finish in about five minutes, grouped into mini-series on communication, marriage preparation and cultural bridging.

Distance, repair and rhythm

Tools for the parts of a relationship nobody posts about.

  • Long Distance Time-zone aware prompts, shared activities you can do apart, and a plan for the visit and the goodbye.
  • Reconnect A guided path back after a hard week, built around repair rather than winning.
  • Relationship Pulse A simple read on your current rhythm from what you both actually did, so you can see drift early.
  • The 90-Day Journey Twelve guided weeks with weekly private reporting, milestone reviews and an honest decision point at the end.

Covenant Couples is relationship development, not matchmaking. Nobody is introduced to anybody — you arrive already together. Content is personalised to your heritage: Haitian and Haitian couples get Haitian material, Nigerian and Nigerian couples get Nigerian material, and Haitian and Nigerian couples get both alongside cross-cultural teaching.

Cultural tracks

Written for your family, not a generic one

Track

Haiti - Haiti Couples

Written for Haitian couples at home and in the diaspora, with room for your own family, language, denomination and traditions.

Track

Nigerian - Nigerian Couples

Written for Nigerian couples at home and in the diaspora, with room for your own ethnic background, denomination, family and traditions.

Mixed couples choose both tracks and get both sets of cultural material.

The twelve weeks

Every week has a lesson, a devotional, a conversation and something you do together

  1. Week 1

    Where are we now?

    Current reality, intentions and the outcome you each want

  2. Week 2

    Faith, purpose and covenant

    Spiritual habits, church life, prayer and how faith decides things

  3. Week 3

    Love languages and emotional needs

    How affection is given, how it is received and where it is being missed

  4. Week 4

    Temperament and communication

    Processing speed, silence, directness and decision-making styles

  5. Week 5

    Conflict, repair and forgiveness

    Escalation, withdrawal, accountability, apology and rebuilding trust

  6. Week 6

    Trust, boundaries and emotional safety

    Honesty, privacy, friendships, former partners, phones and loyalty

  7. Week 7

    Culture, family and community

    The traditions you keep, the ones you decline and the people who expect both

  8. Week 8

    Money, work and lifestyle

    Income, debt, giving, supporting relatives, ambition and household load

  9. Week 9

    Affection, intimacy and boundaries

    Closeness, consent, expectations and the honest conversations most couples skip

  10. Week 10

    Distance, relocation, trust and digital life

    Time zones, travel, papers, online behaviour and staying real across a screen

  11. Week 11

    Building the next stage

    What the next step requires, and whether it is ready to be taken

  12. Week 12

    Covenant decision and continued growth

    The final report, your commitments and the ninety days after this one

Investment

One application, one bill, both of you

Couple application and review: $79, paid once by one partner.

One program. Two linked partner accounts. One couple price.

Plans start at $299 when paid in full or three monthly instalments of $109. The $79 couple application fee is separate, paid once by one partner, and non-refundable.

12-Week Couple Program

Covenant Foundation

The full twelve-week development path for both of you.

$299

Pay in Full · per couple

Or 3 monthly instalments of $109

Instalment total $327 · paying in full saves $28

  • Two linked partner accounts on one bill
  • Personalised twelve-week plan
  • Couples assessments, love language and temperament profiles
  • Weekly lessons, devotionals and prayers
  • Scheduled prompts and private journals
  • Shared couple exercises each week
  • Virtual and in-person date ideas
  • Progress dashboard and weekly check-ins
  • Resource library
  • Standard staff support requests
  • Final twelve-week relationship development report
  • Price is per couple — two partner accounts included
  • No private sessions included — add-on sessions may be purchased
  • $79 application fee is separate
  • Program access covers the 12-week journey
  • No recurring charge after instalment three

12-Week Couple Program

Guided Covenant

Everything in Covenant Foundation, with staff eyes on your progress.

$529

Pay in Full · per couple

Or 3 monthly instalments of $189

Instalment total $567 · paying in full saves $38

  • Everything in Covenant Foundation
  • Monthly written relationship review
  • Personalised staff feedback on your weeks
  • Director or pastor milestone reviews
  • Priority support requests
  • Additional communication and conflict exercises
  • One customised monthly growth plan
  • Extended cultural and family boundary resources
  • Price is per couple — two partner accounts included
  • No private sessions included — add-on sessions may be purchased
  • $79 application fee is separate
  • Program access covers the 12-week journey
  • No recurring charge after instalment three

12-Week Couple Program

Private Covenant

Everything in Guided Covenant, plus a private session every month.

$829

Pay in Full · per couple

Or 3 monthly instalments of $299

Instalment total $897 · paying in full saves $68

  • Everything in Guided Covenant
  • One private fifty-minute couples development session each month for three months
  • Director or pastor review
  • Personalised session notes and action plan
  • Priority scheduling
  • Custom relationship growth recommendations
  • Enhanced engagement or marriage readiness planning
  • Monthly progress review with your assigned facilitator
  • Price is per couple — two partner accounts included
  • Private sessions included: one 50-minute session a month for three months
  • $79 application fee is separate
  • Program access covers the 12-week journey
  • No recurring charge after instalment three

No further programme payments after payment three. Access covers the twelve-week journey and does not renew.

Add-ons

Extra help, only when you want it

$89 · 50 min

Couple Clarity Session

One focused conversation on the thing you keep circling back to.

$159 · 90 min

Couples Intensive

A longer sitting for a knot that needs more than fifty minutes.

$119 · 60 min

Conflict Reset Session

Walk through a recent rupture with a facilitator and leave with a repair plan.

$99 · 60 min

Cultural and Family Expectations Session

Family, elders, traditions and the expectations you are carrying.

$99 · 60 min

Engagement Readiness Review

An honest look at whether the next step is ready to be taken.

$99 · 60 min

Marriage Maintenance Review

For married couples: what is drifting, and what needs tending.

$59

Additional Director or Pastor Review

A second set of eyes on your reports and your plan.

$69

Personalised Written Relationship Plan

Your priorities, next conversations and ninety-day plan, written out for you.

Privacy

What your partner sees, and what stays yours

Steps two through eight are shared with your partner and with authorised staff. Step nine, your journals, your weekly ratings and any safety disclosure stay private to you.

Covenant Couples is faith-based relationship education and support. It is not therapy, medical care, crisis intervention or licensed clinical treatment. If you are in danger, contact your local emergency service.

Open your couple file

One of you starts it, invites the other, and you each answer in your own words.

Start the couple application