Teaching note · Both tracks
The ninety days, honestly explained
What each season of the journey is for, and what we are watching.
Reading
Take your time with it.
Weeks 1 to 4 — Foundation. You learn to talk. We watch for consistency: does your story stay the same?
Weeks 5 to 8 — Depth. Money, family, children, church, country. The subjects most couples avoid until it is expensive to disagree.
Weeks 9 to 12 — Reality. Conflict, in-laws, distance, immigration honesty, timelines. You practise repair, not performance.
Week 13 — Decision. You each answer privately: covenant pathway, extend the season, or close with dignity. Neither of you sees the other answer until both are sealed.
Nobody is rushed into marriage here. Nobody is strung along either.