Safety explainer · Both tracks
Reading the warning signs
Nine patterns that should make you pause and tell us.
Reading
Take your time with it.
Money, however creatively asked. Urgency: rushing to marriage, or to secrecy. Pressure to move off-platform in the first weeks. A story that shifts — names, jobs, ages, dates. Refusing a live video call. Love-bombing followed by withdrawal. Contempt for your family, your church or your questions. Anger that arrives fast and leaves slowly. Any request to keep something from the team.
One of these is a conversation. Three of these is a decision. You are never in trouble for reporting.